The Phone Sex Bar

Techniques

When you love your job, it doesn’t feel like you’re working.

One life technique I regularly employ is being grateful. I just want to say to everyone, the welcome extended to me here at The Bar has been amazing, and I sincerely thank you. Friendly regulars, supportive co-workers, and a fun culture have made me eager to come to work each day. I really like the fun, the flirting and the terrific calls I’ve had so far – you know who you are!

I’d love to pass along a few things I’ve learned that might be beneficial to any caller, experienced or neophyte. No big revelations, but little things that can make an impactful improvement. Some of these techniques you may already know and use, but hopefully you’ll pick up something new. This is just my small way of showing my appreciation to each of you.

Keep in mind, your phone sex operator is a professional. It’s very difficult to shock, offend or even surprise a PSO. You can talk to us about anything. You’re not talking to your wife, your mom, or any other “regular” woman in your life. That being said, she is a woman, and may have a relevatory insight or two about how other women think. She is also a professional in the business of kink, and may have some wonderful suggestions that maximize your pleasure.

You know what you like, but PSOs don’t read minds – use these techniques to help her give you a memorable call.

Technique One: Be Open – This crosses several fronts. First, be honest about your kinks and turn ons. Next, be ready to say exactly what you want to talk about. Be willing to try a new idea if you don’t know exactly what you want. Another area, just as important – if you have hard limits, or things you absolutely do not want to talk about, make her aware of these “no go” zones. Never assume, even if you’ve done a call with this particular PSO before, that she will totally remember all the details about you. Also, despite being a “regular” at a site like The Bar, not everyone will know everything about you. We don’t exchange confidences about you, nor do we have a customer index to bring new staff up to speed.

Technique Two: Be Prepared – Make sure your preferred PSO is on duty and available for your call. May of us will schedule an appointment, if that makes it easier for you. Some times, you may have a limited time frame to make your call. Get the necessities out of the way as quickly as you can so that you have the maximum available time for the call itself. If you like toys or props, have them ready to go. Be in the right mental frame of mind to thoroughly enjoy your call. And don’t be afraid to just hang up if needed, your PSO will not take it personally.

Technique Three: Be Participatory – The best calls are the ones where there’s interaction. Your words and even just your inflection can guide your PSO to what you’re enjoying most. If you’re in a situation where you cannot talk fully, even a “yes” or “no” can be helpful to your PSO. You might also consider doing a text session rather than a call, if that fits the situation better. The hardest calls I’ve ever done have been where my client was completely silent.

Techniques are only as good as the use you make of them.

For maximum enjoyment, call me now and employ these techniques. I can’t wait to hear your feedback on how they work for you. Questions and comments welcome.

Linda
866-930-0008 x310
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