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Nothing is pleasant that is not spiced with variety. ―Francis Bacon

Don’t get me wrong, sex is great. Everybody loves sex, everybody wants sex. However, when “sex” becomes merely a routine, then the drama and thrill can dim or even fade away. Sixteen minutes of missionary position on the third Saturday night of the month is not a stimulating sex life. To heighten your enjoyment, add a dash of variety.

You’re more engaged and involved when you don’t know what to expect. Your heart beats faster, you concentrate on the action, and any discomfort can easily transform to titillation. You feel more alive, more interested and if the scenario is sexual, you feel more stimulation.

Variety, multiplicity are the two most powerful vehicles of lust. ―Marquis de Sade

Just like you don’t watch the same porn repeatedly, don’t reduce sex to a scripted activity. Having said that, it can be difficult to think of anything new to add to your established practice. Keep in mind, not everything must be changed, simple things like playing romantic music and lighting candles can help. Even a change of scenery can add a touch of adventure to your usual pattern — vacation sex usually rocks.

So, how best to change things to up the intensity for you and your partner? While small changes can add a fillip of interest, you need bigger changes for a noticably increased kick. Try an unusual position, a new toy, a flavored lube, an additional partner, or a different setting. Any of these things or better yet, a combination of these things, will rachet up the heat. Do you always have sex in the bedroom? Imagine how fun it could be to surprise your partner in the laundry room. Cowgirl on the couch or kitchen chair is hot *and* memorable, you’ll smile every time you walk past that seat.

…Blessings come in a variety of shapes, colors, and sizes. ―Craig Groeschel

Finally, it need not be an ascending level of change. Don’t fall in the rut of thinking that it has to always be different, and bigger, to be better. Enjoy variety at any level, take it any direction, and reap the accumulating rewards. Also, after several times adding variety to your groove, the customary way becomes a variant as well. According to Daniel Gilbert, “The secret of happiness is variety, but the secret of variety, like the secret of all spices, is knowing when to use it.”

So, what variety have you added to your sex life lately? Might I suggest a fun, frenzied, free-for-all phone sex call? Don’t let this blog fool you, as it is rather tame, I cultivate euphoria on a call. I’m here to spice things up for you, and be a resource on additional ways to increase your excitement level. Give me a call now, and find out for yourself. I leave you with one last quote — “Like fashion, torture comes in a variety of styles,” ―James Marshall Smith — but that will be a topic for another blog.

Linda
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