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Is there a Phone Sex Psychology and what does that mean?

Phone Sex Psychology. Lets start with the basic meaning of psychology first.

“is the study of behavior and mind, embracing all aspects of conscious and unconscious experience as well as thought. It is an academic discipline and an applied science which seeks to understand individuals and groups by establishing general principles and researching specific cases.”

Psychology of Phone Sex

Phone Sex Psychology is more to phone sex than just talking and spitting out words over media.

I was sitting in our Chat Room yesterday with Silkyslips and we got to chatting about then pros and cons as a PSO and caller. Each of us has a specific need that needs to be filled and we count on each other for it. Basic need is orgasm and earning power. That is the very base of the relationship. Going up a level, the caller needs us to enjoy it as much as they are and in do so, they reach a higher sense of satisfaction. As a PSO, our goal is to make sure you achieve the best possible experience for your payment. It is up to us to do it well so that you come back to us again.

Going up another level means we must understand the deeper need beyond the orgasm. Everyone has a turn-on, kink or fetish that the indulge. As I told Silky, its not just tossing on a slip and pretty heels. Girls must understand why someone enjoys that and go deeper than the Oooo’s and Ahhh’s over the phone line. What are the triggers? What really sends the caller over the edge and how well can you do it? These things bind us in that moment of time for a unique experience. The Taboo, the naughty and things our real life friends can never know. Its our sexual closet which hangs an array of things we ourselves don’t always understand but we do keep exploring privately.

There are risks to being understood on that deeper level as well.  In my opinion it forms a bond that can make a persons emotions go down a slippery slope of need for endless satisfaction; not only in physical gain but mental and emotional.  It can become an obsession onto the PSO who guides your experience and fills that need for you.  Fulfilling a fantasy sexually can be very rewarding.  Being understood by another in our twists and kinks makes us feel accepted and somewhat whole and the Psychology of Phone Sex does all this and more.  We all want to be free to express and experience things that excite and stimulate our senses but one should always do so with one foot on the ground.

Your Silken Seduction,

Sydney