October 27th, 2018 
Anonymous Sensual Dominance is not your Mama’s BDSM.
Some of the older members of the BDSM community think that sensual Dominance is not truly a “thing.” This is partly because there is no requirement for black leather or brutality nor for blood or degradation. There is no joy in beating up on a person you care for deeply. There’s no reason to wear leather if you find it hot, uncomfortable or restrictive. There is no pleasure in humiliating someone just for the sake of humiliation, if it doesn’t provide a thrill.
So, if there’s no sexual or emotional “turn on” involved in what you’re doing, why are do it? We’ve shown several things that sensual Dominance is not. We’re then forced to ask: what’s left? What is sensual Dominance?
Sensual Dominance is Control: complete and utter control.
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Sensual Dominance is the surrender of the submissive to the will of the Dominant. Period. Therefore, this does not mean the submissive acts like a wuss in all situations. The submissive has ceded all control to the dominant inside the confines of their relationship. However, in public, one is free to stand their ground as one sees fit.
In a sensual Dominance relationship, loving inter-action features prominently. The submissive knows their Dominant will affectionately push the soft limits and absolutely respect the hard limits. The submissive performs the acts asked of them, knowing that their Dominant’s primary motivations are love and safety.
The Dominant decides what the submissive will wear, when s/he will get up, when s/he will exercise. The Dom/me decides how the submissive will take care of one’s self, what the submissive will eat or not eat. The Dominant controls sex; if, when, where, how, how long, and finally, whether and when the submissive gets to release.
When you’re ready to surrender to a sensual Domme, call me.
Linda
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