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Switchy Situations

Switchy Situations is the perfect solution to any sticky situation, of weather you want to be Dom or Sub.

As a BDSM educator I always advice people that there are always two sides to every story, and two sides to every situation, it is called switchy situations.

If you are a Dom, you may question yourself if it is okay to be a bottom – well it is okay, however some Dom’s do not want to bottom or sub to their submissive or slave, because they are afraid that the submissive or slave will see it as a weakness.

It is okay for you to seek out that else where and know what it is like to be a bottom or submissive!

You may be asking why should I seek out a Dom for myself?  Well as someone who has been a submissive before, it will help you understand what you may be lacking as a Dom, and see what it is like to be in the same place as your submissive or slave.  Sometimes this can help you improve your relationship with your submissive or slave.  This can be something you are not providing to them, like attention, or even after care or even communication with them.

On the other hand if you are a submissive or a slave, and your Dom does not allow you to top them, you can always talk about taking on a submissive/slave of your own with your Dom’s guidance to assure safety to that individual.  As  a Dom myself, I will allow my submissve’s or slave’s to find a submissive/slave of their own, as I will not sub to them.

Switchy Situations

Now it is okay if you both are switches, and want to allow each-other time to Dom the other for a months at a time or even weeks, what ever you need to fulfill your sexual life and fun, remember it is okay to be a switch, and most of all remember communication is the key to make any relationship work.

Finally, if you are new to either role, come and chat with me, and lets have some switchy fun!

Switchy, Gia

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